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About Me

The power lies in the flow

As a coach and kayaker, I feel a deep connection with both the river and the human experience. Just as I move with the current on the water, I help women learn to navigate their own natural rhythms.

Hi, I'm Feli Aarsman.

Explore, experience, inspire, and trust

I moved to Wageningen to study Ecology at university, where my fascination with the connection between humans and nature began to grow. Just like ecosystems, our bodies depend on a complex interplay of internal and external factors. Our health is shaped by biological, psychological and social factors that constantly influence one another. This forms the foundation of my approach: we are not machines, but human beings, each with a unique biology, individual needs and a body that is constantly changing.

Over the years, my interests gradually shifted from the academic world towards sport, movement and a healthy lifestyle. I found my own balance through adventures in the mountains and on whitewater rivers, alongside my work as a fitness coach. There, I discovered the importance of body awareness, posture, muscle control and breathing. It led me to a question that remains central to my work today: how can we function at our best by working with our bodies, rather than against them?

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That question inspired me to guide women toward greater physical strength, self-confidence, and a deeper understanding of their own bodies. In the summer, I share my love for the outdoors as a whitewater kayak instructor in the mountains of Slovenia. The rest of the year, I guide women as a lifestyle coach and personal trainer. I help them better understand their bodies and build a strong foundation through focused attention on training, lifestyle, and hormonal health.

My choice to focus specifically on women stems from the belief that women's health and female physiology deserve more attention. With over eight years of experience as an instructor and coach, I have seen how much can change when women gain confidence in their bodies, discover their strength, and dare to take up the space they deserve. I want to help women better understand their bodies, make their own choices, and confidently claim their place, both in sports and in life. Because every woman deserves to feel strong, to be heard, and to chart her own course.

My studies

My journey began with a university background in science, where my interest in communication and human psychology first emerged. From there, I developed my coaching and training skills in both extreme natural environments and the gym. Over time, my focus shifted increasingly toward the interplay between body, behavior, and lifestyle, and specifically to what women need to feel truly strong and healthy.

  • Menopause 2.0: Female Physiology and Nutrition Science
    Dr. Stacy Sims | 2026
  • Female Health Coach: Women's Health and Lifestyle Coaching
    Centre of Excellence | 2025
  • Leefstijlcoach: BGN & KTNO accredited
    NHA, 2023
  • Personal Trainer: Functional trainer & healthcoach
    Chivo: knowledge institute, 2020
  • Allround outdoor instructor: Extreme sports
    Voshaar Outdoor & Education, 2019
  • Bachelor of Science: Minor in Communication en Psychology
    Wageningen University, 2015

My work experience

With over eight years of experience coaching groups and individuals, I’ve learned how valuable personalised guidance is in fostering motivation and growth. This experience has deepened my interest in women’s unique needs and shown me how an approach tailored to their bodies, lifestyles and personal goals can help them feel stronger and move through life with greater confidence.

  • Coach and Founder
    JoyFeli Coaching | 2024 - heden
  • Personal trainer and Fitness instructor
    MyLife Healthclub: 2022 - present
  • Pilates, Spinning and XCORE instructor
    MyLife Healthclub: 2022 - present
  • Wild water kayak instructor
    Slovenië, 2020 - present
  • Boulder, Spinning and Fitness instructor
    Avalon Fitcentre: 2018 - 2022